''Iyanya is not my spec'' - Uru Eke

I don't know what she is feeling like sef..is it you that is supposed to be saying Iyanya is not your spec or him saying your not his? all these attention seekers...

Read an excerpt from her Interview with Bella naija below....

In a recent interview you had on the TV Program ‘Rubbin’ Minds’, you said Iyanya is not your “spec” in response to a question about him.
(Laughs) I feel I’m not Iyanya’s spec either.

So what kind of man is your “spec”?
I am more of a depth person. When I meet a guy, it shouldn’t be just about the surface; the physical side of things don’t really play into it as much as the inner qualities. I like a man who I can talk about different subjects with. I love to dialogue and I love to throw out things that we can debate on. I’m very opinionated sometimes so I love a man who can challenge me in that area. Also I love sensitive men, I don’t like men who are hard and cold and macho. I love men who can actually show emotion. You don’t have to cry but you should be empathic.

Hmm, interesting qualities. Have you found this man?
Not exactly. I do have amazing male friends. The thing is I’m still weighing my options.

You must have a lot of options.
I won’t say that. It’s just that I want longevity and a future in my relationship so I like to connect with the person and if we can connect, everything else will follow. I don’t think we should be too physical in our dealings with the opposite sex otherwise we’re going to end up having lots of shallow relationships. I’d rather be single than go into a casual relationship.