Ladies, How do you select your man..

This is one question that i have asked people and i get several confusing answers..some guys say you should be yourself when you are with the chick...some say be funny...others say dress to kill....even one guy told me that i must get muscular,i should get some killer 'pacs'...omo! everything just to catch one woman???

Well ladies in the house i want to hear from the 'horses' mouth....help a searching guy out...